Grace is a forty-three-year-old teacher who was married twice: to Dan in 1994 and Luke in 2002. She and Luke are now separated, and they have a ten-year-old son. Grace has been attracted to women all her life, but she never really questioned it, because, as she said, “Of course, I was straight. Everybody was straight.” Then she met Christine, a lesbian with whom she became friends. Even after it became apparent to Grace that she was deeply attracted to Christine, it took her about eighteen months to sort things out, which included talking with Luke about her feelings for Christine. The couple separated after Luke made it clear that it was okay with him for Grace to explore her feelings for Christine. Grace was in a relationship with Christine for two and a half years. She now lives with her son, maintains a close friendship with Luke, and is in a relationship with a man.